Engagement night she was not a virgin authentication

Her parents are self-employed, mother is my mother's classmates, family economic conditions has not my house, because we have two sets of family houses in large cities, there is a value of 800,000 cars. At that time, because the good relationship between the two, my mother jokingly said, "Why do not we do two people's relatives, right?" The girl's parents actually agreed, however, to avoid conflict with the law, we have this year on May 4, girls over 14 years of age when it is engaged. Our family gave her parents last year, 100,000 yuan bride price payment. But I absolutely did not expect that the engagement night, I found my she was not a virgin! This is because before the busy, have not spoken to me girlfriend, is nothing short of a Tiandaleipi result! I Last year, she questioned whether the foreign company where I was assigned to travel abroad when having an affair with another man? she cried and said it was no matter! However, it believed that she said is true? I do not believe her words are as follows: 1, although she was only 14 years of age, but looks ripe development was also very full, their demeanor completely like an adult. 2, last year I travel abroad, one day when video chat with her, vaguely remembered her boudoir there is a young boy in the walk, I asked her who it is? She said to her relatives, but we are engaged in this year time, this so-called fundamental no relatives there!